How to Decondition using Human Design
How fulfilled do you feel?
Many people jump on the hamster wheel of life; doing what they are told or what is expected of them without question, until one day they wake up and wonder why they feel so deeply unfulfilled.
We each have a unique way of living life, and experiencing fulfillment and joy. There is no one-size-fits-all approach to reaching success and happiness, yet society often projects such an ideal.
Life is about figuring out your own way. Human Design can help you do that.
Life audit
Consider different areas of your life; family, home, romance, friendship, finances, career, recreation, body and health.
How fulfilled do you feel in each area currently?
What do you desire and value in each of these areas?
What kind of actions, thoughts, and intentions are you directing into these areas of life?
Do you feel your desires and values are influenced by external forces?
Do you feel your actions are influenced by external forces?
Do you have any limiting beliefs surrounding these life areas?
Where do you think you picked up these beliefs?
Psychological Conditioning
Our human minds are incredibly suggestible, and especially so when we are young. The messages we receive from our parents, friends, siblings, teachers, media, school, authorities, and role models colour the way we view the world.
Psychological conditioning teaches us what to value, how to act, and what to think and believe. Trouble arises when our behaviours, thoughts, and values are not authentic to us, yet we have blindly accepted them to be so.
Perhaps you follow the “rules” you have been taught or do the things society expects of you, but wonder why you feel so deeply unfulfilled…This is where the de-conditioning process comes in.
Human Design offers a roadmap to living life authentically. When you follow your strategy and authority your authentic path is laid out before you.
Deconditioning based on your Energy Type.
There are certain limiting beliefs that each energy type can fall prey to. Here are some lies you may have been led to believe based on your energy type:
Manifestor
The biggest lie you’ve ever believed is that you are too much, or too big, or too overbearing.
You came here to make waves and show us what true confidence looks like. Being controlled by others may be your greatest fear, but sometimes you subconsciously place a cage around yourself. There is no more time to waste apologising for who you are. Go big or go home. When you rise to the call of your own Soul, you give permission for the world around you to do the same.
The secret trick to start living in alignment is to be you unapologetically.
Generator
The biggest lie you’ve ever believed is that looking after yourself is selfish.
You are here to show us what healthy boundaries look like. Letting people down might be your greatest fear, but when you settle for something less than a HELL YES in relationships, jobs, or living situations, you dim your own light. The world benefits most when you are in a state of joy. Do everything in your power to live in joy.
The secret trick to start living in alignment is to never settle.
Reflector
The biggest lie you’ve ever believed is that you need to know where you are going.
Your life is one of constant evolution and reinvention. Appearing directionless or confused may be something you fear but your sense of direction is guided by something greater than your mind. When you surrender to the call of the Universe and move to the places and people you feel are correct, you set yourself free.
The secret trick to start living in alignment is to let go of attachment to labels and embrace your unique flow.
Manifesting Generator
The biggest lie you’ve ever believed is that you need to stick to something or someone forever.
You are made for more than that. You learn and evolve at rapid speed through multiple projects, people, and places. If something stops fulfilling you, it’s time to move on. You may fear being misunderstood but when you follow the trail of your own excitement, you get to experience the variety of life, and the world learns through you.
The secret trick to start living in alignment is to throw out the rule book and trust your gut.
Projector
The biggest lie you’ve ever believed is that your worth lies in your ability to work hard, long hours.
You are here to show us how to work smarter, not harder. Appearing lazy might be your greatest fear but a well-rested projector is a force to be reckoned with. The value you can offer the world when you work according to your unique flow is exponentially greater than when you are giving from an empty tank.
The secret trick to start living in alignment is to rest with pride.
Explore your Human Design
Your unique Human Design is based on birth date, time and location. Find your chart here.
If you’re curious to know more about your Human Design; consider a 1:1 Reading.
